Photo by Christa Gallopoulos
Come on over to Maria Shriver’s site today if you’d like to read my recent post there, on a sweet little practice that can change your life (and has been changing mine.)
Love,
Tara
Photo by Christa Gallopoulos
Come on over to Maria Shriver’s site today if you’d like to read my recent post there, on a sweet little practice that can change your life (and has been changing mine.)
Love,
Tara
I loved it. Great idea. I will try a do be list tomorrow
The “to be list” is such a wonderful reminder of how are thoughts control our actions throughout our day & lives. It’s also a reminder of how much control we really have about how we chose to think & live. Thank you for this reminder!!
This just made me cry. I stumble through my day, my life, and feel the thumb on me from everyone and how they control me, my feelings, my mood, my perception of myself. I don’t even know where to begin. Trust me I have tried, but when I do, they find out or figure out what I am doing and find a way to hit that “go back” button. I am going to try the To-Be List. I just don’t know where to start. It will definitely be baby steps for me. I have to think tiny things and build up. Do you have suggestions? I love everything you have to say. Implementing it is hard.
Hi Tara,
What a lovely post–and so apropos! I don’t yet handle stress well, yet if in a day I can push myself to accomplish x, y, z and maybe my next a, I say that’s progress, that’s gaining ground.
But often on those so-called successful days I’ve run like a robot, or worse, vented my angry, pressured, overwhelmed emotions at almost anyone who crossed my trajectory.
And some of those to-do’s are damn penny-wise and pound-foolish–will I recover creatively, and BE an artist again, with help from an hour-long excursion to get milk at $1.41 per quart, not $1.51?
But those are quantifiable things, easy to check off…
What does that communicate? That I’d BE rude, angry, pushy, and ungenerous for $0.10 and a check-mark. Do I value cheaper milk more than the respect of others–and, ultimately, self-respect?
You really have it right on here, Tara. There may be days when we have to BE tough, hard-nosed, speedy…but not obnoxious by default. We–I–can make a conscious choice to lead a life today that’s not going to be just about “survival.”
As always, I love your posts and send them along to friends. Many thanks.
Donna
What a STAR idea Great Tarah Sophia ! We need both lists it is an evidence and we did not see it untill you notice : Genial !!! I am a spritual coach and I think and repeat for all that intention is essential to do what we’ve choosen. Intention is as essential as a compass ! GRATITUDE
I love this idea. What a great way to bring intention into the day. I don’t always get through all my to-dos, but I’d much rather get through to-bes.