When I was a kid, I got it. I could see that extreme poverty was inhumane and intolerable. It seemed clear that, before any more spelling lessons or trips to the toy store took place, the homeless people in our town should be taken care of, immediately.
When I’d say that, the people around me – men and women, kids and grown ups — would, in one form or another, pat me on the head and said, “little lady, that’s just not how the world is. There always has been and always will be poverty, dear. We can’t help everyone, dear.”
I wonder how many of us were told in some form, “those are very nice aspirations for the world, but that’s just not realistic.” How many of us squashed or buried or shrunk our vision for change early in life? In order to fit in, be taken seriously, considered “smart”?
What would have been different, if at that moment someone had said to you, “How the world is is indeed insane, and our progress will depend on people like you seeing that and doing something about it.”
I’m here to say: go back. Go back to your early desire to be a force of healing in the world. You are old enough now to trust that the cynics are no greater authority than you are on the way of the world. As a savvy and wise adult, reclaim your childhood desire to make change. Mix it up with your education and your hot vocabulary and your know how and then take action to make a difference.
The Girl Effect
Today is a very exciting day. It’s the launch of an effort I’ve been working on for the past several weeks – a project that involves more than 30 remarkable bloggers and that by the end of the week will involve many more.
Several weeks ago, I watched this short video and learned about an idea called The Girl Effect. I was so captivated, uplifted, and pained by the video that I watched it again and again. I knew I needed to write about it. And then I knew I wanted to help spread the video’s message by inviting others to write about it with me.
Because my new rule is “follow your enthusiasm” (much better than my old rule of “kill your enthusiasm with perfectionism and fear”), I did just that. And amazing writers, thinkers, creators jumped in.
Today, I want to share with you what’s inspiring me.
The Girl Effect is a powerful idea: by investing in girls in the developing world, we make an incredibly powerful investment in ending poverty and domestic violence, and slowing the spread of AIDS. The Girl Effect movie, created by a coalition of nonprofit partners, highlights devastating problems – sexual slavery, physical abuse, hunger, sexually transmitted disease, dire poverty.
But the Girl Effect is fundamentally about solutions. It turns out that the solutions to the complex web of problems mentioned above are relatively simple: 1) investing in girls’ education and 2) investing in loans and training that allow women to start small businesses.
Here’s why: Without an education, girls marry early or are sold into sexual slavery – leading to death from childbirth, incessant violence, or infection from AIDS. It takes a small investment – in many countries just $40 or $50 a year, to keep a girl in school. Girls who stay in school marry later, have fewer children, are less likely to be abused by their husbands, and earn a higher income.
That’s where the ripple effects begin: women in the developing world reinvest 90% of their earnings in their families, while men reinvest only 30%-40%. When women are given the opportunity for education and therefore for earning a living, they lift their entire families out of poverty. Often, as their businesses grow, they lift their entire community out of poverty too.
Why am I writing about this? I’m not an international development expert, by any stretch of the imagination. I’m not even a seasoned activist. But the Girl Effect cause has deeply inspired me over the past months. It’s inspired me because I want to reduce human suffering, because I want all people to have opportunity and freedom, and because this is a strategy that works.
Over the past months, I’ve done three things that have been tremendously meaningful to me: I’ve learned more by reading Nicholas Kristof and Sheryl Wudunn’s remarkable book Half the Sky. I’ve been spreading the message through this project. Last but not least, my husband and I are giving funds to support small business loans for women and to support education for all in the developing world.
We live in a strange moment, you and I. The gap between the haves and have-nots has never been greater. And yet those of us with resources have never had easier access to changing lives around the world. We’ve never before had the technology to, with a few keystrokes, change a life through a small donation. We’ve never before had the opportunity to so easily join a movement that very well could make widespread poverty and the oppression of women a past chapter in human history.
And whether or not we get there, along the way, we can change the lives of many, many girls, who in turn will change many families and communities. If Anita, my hero, can’t convince you that changing one life is worthwhile, I can’t image who can. I leave you with her.
To read the other Girl Effect posts and add your own, click here.
Love, Tara
Tara, I’m so proud to be a part of your campaign and feel very strongly that it will make a difference in many girls’ lives. I’ve been reading some of the other contributor’s posts and it is quite simply an inspiring and lovely array of ideas, voices and energy that you’ve gathered here. Awesome effort for an awesome cause!
Hey Tara,
So glad you put this together. Follow your enthusiasm is my MO as well. Makes for a wonderful life and it’s contagious!
We both chose Anita. She followed her enthusiasm, for sure. For just an itty bit of money, we can all help girls around the world get a start.
Thanks for inviting me to participate.
Giulietta
Tara,
This is a beautiful, wise and powerful post. Thank you for inviting me to be a part of this wonderful campaign. Anita called to me as well.
With many blessings,
Julie
Dear Tara,
Thank you again for organizing this. It means a lot to me and to all of us!
Love,
Sara
Thanks for your leadership and support of this worthwhile cause – you are truly making a difference.
Thank you so much for being a galvanizing force in this powerful effort, Tara. I’m honoured to be a part of it.
My gratitude, Tara, for involving me in this wonderful blogging campaign——which I’m thinking about as a blog-in for girls and women and for the power of a simple concept to transform communities and create new futures.
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Thank you so much for sharing. I found you on the Girl Effect website.
Tara, you’ve done something remarkable by bringing us all together! It’s amazing to read the now 40+ posts and all the different ways in which we’re participating and sharing. I can only imagine the ripples this will create. Thank you for asking me to take part! It’s such an honor.
Tara,
Thank you so much for sharing The Girl Effect with all of us. I heard about it yesterday on Marianne Elliott’s blog and it shook me to my core.
I’ve thought about nothing else, done nothing else (expect a little bit of eating and sleeping) since yesterday except work on spreading this campaign.
I’ve even started my own campaign to raise over $5000 by Thanksgiving to help girls in Bangladesh.
I’ve rarely felt more joy or more called to follow my enthusiasm than I do right this minute.
All love.
Hi, Tara.
Thank you so much for organising The Girl Effect blogging campaign. The energy of this movement and the collective intention (and all of these wonderful people) are deeply humbling and profoundly potent. Thank you for leading.
You rock.
Wow. I am overwhelmed with gratitude and awe this morning. I added my post to the others with a prayer and a vow to live the question born from Anita’s call to me to Lead the World. THANK YOU!
Tara, I was proud to be a part of the initial push and will continue to push wherever and whenever I can. Thanks again.
its really great to see more than one blogger spreading this cause , good job Tara
Tara – thanks again for including me in the campaign. You’re a true inspiration to what “writing for social change” really means. Loved your post as well!
What town did you grow up in?
Tara, I love the bigness of your vision.. You have inspired me!
Hey there! I could have sworn I’ve been to this site before but
after reading through some of the post I realized it’s new
to me. Anyhow, I’m definitely glad I found it and I’ll be book-marking and checking back often!
Thanks for finally talking about >Blogging The Girl Effect